What I am seeking

 

About Me

I am a 27 year old bi female r/l sub. 5'6", 130 lbs (about), red hair, brown eyes. Several body piercings, none on my face. I have experience in the lifestyle as a live in for almost two years. I currently live in NJ.

I am sorry if this sounds harsh, or even unsublike, but I am very serious in my search and I know exactly what I am looking for and certain things and situations I do not want. Nothing is meant to offend anyone, but rather to save time- mine and Yours.

My limits: no blood, no scat/GS/watersports, no animals or kids of course, no tattoos or branding, no electricity, no breath control, no tickle torture.

My interests: bondage, spanking (tho I tend to dislike OTK personally), being flogged, whipped and caned, being teased, hot wax, ice, clothespins, clamps, and there is no greater pleasure than being trully owned and belonging to someone.

Those are just the basics of course.

I have a pic to send out to legitimate responses and would like one in return if possible.

What I am seeking

I am looking for a real life bi female Mistress, who is preferably in the NJ /NY area though I'd consider other places within driving distance as well. I would like someone who is 30 or older preferably, very femme and HWP (not bbw, sorry). I am looking for someone who is experienced as a Domme and has been in the lifestyle for a while.

I am seeking someone who might want a live in 24/7 situation ultimately should things work out swimmingly well, but who will want to begin with phone contact relatively soon, moving to a real time meeting and progressing to a part time relationship. Should things work out excessively well, 24/7 might be a possibility, but it is not a requirement or what I am directly looking for. I think it takes the very very right woman and situation for live-in to work and to work well.

I seek someone who can be equally strict and even a little mean and cruel at times and equally as compassionate, caring and loving at others. Someone who realizes I am a human being with feelings. Someone who wants a slave but a friend and companion as well. However, I seek to always be submissive to you with that balance.

 If you are a Pro or high publicity, please note,I am not looking for someone who is extremely high image or who is so into her publicity that the simpler things in life lose meaning. I am much more into the simpler, personal and private side of things; that isn't to say I do not enjoy going to play parties or on occassion a BDSM club, but I just do not want to be there for the sake of being someone's publicity. I am also looking for someone who has the time for and need of this type of relationship and me in Her life.

And, I seek a Mistress who really enjoys play and being a Domme for her own enjoyment and pleasure. I do not want someone who finds play to be a chore or a favor.

 

Some things I am definitely not looking for:

I am not looking for a Master. I am not looking for a couple with a Male Dom and Fem sub or switch. If my Mistress has a boyfriend or husband, that is not a problem, I just do not want to belong to him or be required to serve him, however, I am not a man-hater and can get along with someone just fine. However, if 'he' has to be there or if play is for 'his' veoyeristic pleasure, than I am not the sub for you. In other words, no I don't want to go down on you while he watches.

I do not want someone who is seeking merely free household help or maid services, to me belonging to someone and a collar mean so much more than just that. I am the type that tends to go out of my way to do things to make my Mistress happy and make her life easier, but I don't want to be just a housekeeper or the nanny. I do want to serve my Mistress and belong to her totally, not just in relation to play but in every aspect of day to day life.

I am not looking for someone to 'farm' me out; my serving others is possible in the future with the very right Mistress. However, I do not wish that to be a main focus whatsoever.

I am not looking for merely kinky sex or play or a play partner, I want to truly belong to someone who is truly dominant in her essence and not someone who plays the part. Sex to me is one of the last things in my list of importance. And this is not role-playing or acting for me, it is REAL.

I do not want to be part of a 'stable'; I do not expect a one-on-one exclusive relationship but I do not seek someone who has a collection of female and male slaves. I want someone who will cherish Her possession.

And lastly, I do not want any game players or posers or anyone who is not serious as I am VERY serious and for real. Please be as well.

 

If this sounds anything like you please email me at kissoffyre@aol.com or IM me anytime.

Thank you.